Q,
I feel your pain man. When you're dealing with all family members it's a whole different ballgame.
A lot of the suggestions don't seem to take into account that this is all in the Ohana.
I think your Dad is on the right track though.
KK and Moosed, maybe you guys should start your own thread:
"KK vs. Moosed, or Moosed vs. KK"
Try to keep race out of it though. No room for that anywhere.
I'm not sayin' anyone did or they didn't, I'm just sayin'
( And yes, I confess, I am guilty of saying "Mainland Mentality" in certain situations )