How to argue with people who are against guns (Read 10538 times)

punaperson

Re: How to argue with people who are against guns
« Reply #20 on: April 11, 2019, 01:52:48 AM »
So what of those who don't want to ban guns but want a more effective background check or a TRO type system for possible crazies who shouldn't have guns (for example)?

Those people are either uninformed/ignorant or liars. The uninformed/ignorant don't know enough to know that "a more effective background check" is a canard for a mere stepping stone to civilian disarmament, and no nothing of the actual data showing that such checks have little to no effect on crime. There are already all kinds of laws re "crazies" and guns... the lie is that we need new ex parte laws to stop them... when in fact none of the murders they point to (Pulse, Las Vegas, Parkland, etc.) would have been stopped by such a law. They are dupes of the progressive socialists who have only one goal: total power and control which must include disarming the populace at large. The rest are the elite who have everything to gain (power) from the disarming, they know exactly what they are doing and know they must lie about it in order to achieve their goal through incrementalism, which now is being shelved by the boldest (and stupidest) of them in their beginning to call for bans on "semi-automatics". If you think either of these groups is going to be your friend, you are mistaken... if adults wanted to be informed they already would be. If they are the liars, they ain't gonna change stripes.

Just force them into the "them" category and risk alienating them? "Us vs. Them" is a bit of a false dichotomy, as if there is some clear battle line and one is either cleanly on one side of that line or the other.

If they vote, they are on one side or the other. If they don't vote, and are not "politically active" in any way, then they don't matter.

During the American Revolutionary war approximately 40-45% of colonists supported the revolutionaries while 15-20% supported the loyalists. This leaves about 40% of the population somewhere in the middle. Do you think we could have won the revolutionary war by alienating those 40%? (I saw some numbers that said support for the revolution was about 1/3rd as well)

The people that don't do anything one way or the other don't matter. If they aren't involved at this point, forget about it. Or not. Go ahead and do what you're doing. Works for me. Useless, but works for me. Be sure to let us know how the liars and ignorant that you convert help our cause.

Now correct me if I am wrong but I don't think MLK Jr. made big headways in protecting civil liberties by insulting his opponents and refusing to engage them. Feel free to show me how calling them terrorists does anything good for our cause.

Feel free to show me how attempting to educate them or placate them or coddle them does anything good for our cause.

eyeeatingfish

Re: How to argue with people who are against guns
« Reply #21 on: April 11, 2019, 09:49:24 PM »
Those people are either uninformed/ignorant or liars. The uninformed/ignorant don't know enough to know that "a more effective background check" is a canard for a mere stepping stone to civilian disarmament, and no nothing of the actual data showing that such checks have little to no effect on crime. There are already all kinds of laws re "crazies" and guns... the lie is that we need new ex parte laws to stop them... when in fact none of the murders they point to (Pulse, Las Vegas, Parkland, etc.) would have been stopped by such a law. They are dupes of the progressive socialists who have only one goal: total power and control which must include disarming the populace at large. The rest are the elite who have everything to gain (power) from the disarming, they know exactly what they are doing and know they must lie about it in order to achieve their goal through incrementalism, which now is being shelved by the boldest (and stupidest) of them in their beginning to call for bans on "semi-automatics". If you think either of these groups is going to be your friend, you are mistaken... if adults wanted to be informed they already would be. If they are the liars, they ain't gonna change stripes.

Ok, now if they are just uninformed or misinformed, what do you think is going to be more effective at getting them on our side? Calling them ignorant and insulting their current position or being civil, recognizing how they came to that position, and then presenting information to correct the misinformation.
BTW the background check was just an example of a topic for debate. I was not trying to focus on any particular topic.

Did you know the "spoiler" on the trunk of car isn't a spoiler but actually an airfoil? Maybe you did but if you didn't do you think you would be open to new information if I told you how ignorant you were by calling it a spoiler and that you were just duped? No! That would be counter productive.

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If they vote, they are on one side or the other. If they don't vote, and are not "politically active" in any way, then they don't matter.

If you insist on this false dichotomy I think we will lose the war of attrition here. Ignoring them because they "voted" against us is just insuring they will continue to vote against us. Like I pointed out, even if you don't totally flip them, maybe you have tempered their position enough to change the outcome on a certain specific issue. For example, say you talked a lot to a liberal and you couldn't change their mind on universal background checks, but maybe you changed their mind on a magazine size limit. Are you going to say that isn't worth your time and effort, that it must be a complete change of mind or it doesn't count? No one is banning firearms outright, they are doing it step by step.


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The people that don't do anything one way or the other don't matter. If they aren't involved at this point, forget about it. Or not. Go ahead and do what you're doing. Works for me. Useless, but works for me. Be sure to let us know how the liars and ignorant that you convert help our cause.

Those people who don't have strong opinions on the issue of guns still vote so they still matter.

[/quote]Feel free to show me how attempting to educate them or placate them or coddle them does anything good for our cause.
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We need everyone we can get, don't disregard them because they aren't real gun enthusiasts or 2nd amendment enthusiast. I admire your idealism but it needs to be combined with some realism. If we get outvoted we can end up losing out rights, plain and simple. We will be right in theory but in real life we will lose. This is why we cannot disregard our opponents.

zippz

Re: How to argue with people who are against guns
« Reply #22 on: April 14, 2019, 05:38:09 AM »
I approach everything from a neutral point of view at first and don't take a side.  I explore both sides and determine what is the right thing to do and continue to reevaluate.

I've attended the Mom's Demand Action meetings incognito and see them at the capitol a few times.  At the beginning, I noticed that we both shared the same goal of safety with drastically different ways to do it.  The worker bees didn't know anything about guns and wanted to find out more.  They had many questions about the gun community and why gun owners were so passionate about the 2a.  They are nice people that truly feel that they can save lives by what they are doing.  They only get their information from one side.  I dunno if they're afraid to talk to gun owners, don't want to, or believe that they'd get crazy lies.  I can't blame them since the most vocal ones would probably scare them and most others wouldn't bother.

Move forward a year and they are better established now.  They are a lot more confident in what they are doing and are knowledgeable in gun control knowledge and legislative procedures.  They are still far fewer in number but they make up for it with better written testimonies, go to committee hearings, and they talk to their legislators.

I've been planning to work with them in the future to get them better informed on why we do what we do.  Just been busy and stressed out educating and building up activism in the gun community.

zippz

Re: How to argue with people who are against guns
« Reply #23 on: April 14, 2019, 05:45:10 AM »
For clarrification I was referring to the local volunteers.

They have paid local lobbyists that lead them.  Not sure if those just do it for the paycheck or believe in what they're doing.  There are also MDA staff that fly in from the mainland to help educate and organize the group.

eyeeatingfish

Re: How to argue with people who are against guns
« Reply #24 on: April 15, 2019, 10:05:34 PM »
I approach everything from a neutral point of view at first and don't take a side.  I explore both sides and determine what is the right thing to do and continue to reevaluate.

I've attended the Mom's Demand Action meetings incognito and see them at the capitol a few times.  At the beginning, I noticed that we both shared the same goal of safety with drastically different ways to do it.  The worker bees didn't know anything about guns and wanted to find out more.  They had many questions about the gun community and why gun owners were so passionate about the 2a.  They are nice people that truly feel that they can save lives by what they are doing.  They only get their information from one side.  I dunno if they're afraid to talk to gun owners, don't want to, or believe that they'd get crazy lies.  I can't blame them since the most vocal ones would probably scare them and most others wouldn't bother.

Move forward a year and they are better established now.  They are a lot more confident in what they are doing and are knowledgeable in gun control knowledge and legislative procedures.  They are still far fewer in number but they make up for it with better written testimonies, go to committee hearings, and they talk to their legislators.

I've been planning to work with them in the future to get them better informed on why we do what we do.  Just been busy and stressed out educating and building up activism in the gun community.


It sounds like you are doing a real good job with them.

I think your statement about getting their information from only one side is a huge key to approaching dialogue. Often people learn something a certain way and might not know to question it. Allowing leeway is the best way to keep the dialogue open and hitting them over the head for their wrong beliefs is the best way to close their mind. Thankyou for keeping the dialogue open, I think you are exhibiting our best chance to preserve our rights.

AusTac

Re: How to argue with people who are against guns
« Reply #25 on: April 25, 2019, 05:47:10 PM »
Got to decide if they're able to have an adult conversation without name calling, you can always agree is disagree but it has to be civil, and pro gun person can never loose his/her/it's cool and must be the bigger person if it goes south  :)

ren

Re: How to argue with people who are against guns
« Reply #26 on: April 25, 2019, 06:31:37 PM »
"agreeing to disagree" is the dumbest cliche
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Flapp_Jackson

Re: How to argue with people who are against guns
« Reply #27 on: April 25, 2019, 08:16:39 PM »
"agreeing to disagree" is the dumbest cliche

Exactly. You can accept another person's opinion, and they yours, as opinions, but not in matters of fact.  Either a fact exists, or it's not a fact.


Another cliche I hate is "your truth."  My truth, his truth, your truth ...

Truth can't be owned, It exists independent of perspective, opinion, experiences or interpretation.

Beauty may be in the eye of the beholder, but truth transcends the human observer. If I show a colorblind person a red apple, and he says it's gray, that's not "his truth." That's a false description based on a lack of color vision. The apple didn't change colors. It still absorbs and radiates the same colors in the spectrum as it did when someone who sees colors views it.

Your knowledge or perceptions may differ from mine, but the things you know don't constitute "your truth." It's illogical to believe otherwise, and it's ridiculous to redefine "truth" as such.
The reasonable man adapts himself to the world;
the unreasonable one persists in trying to adapt the world to himself.
Therefore, all progress depends on the unreasonable man.
-- George Bernard Shaw

eyeeatingfish

Re: How to argue with people who are against guns
« Reply #28 on: April 25, 2019, 09:10:32 PM »
Got to decide if they're able to have an adult conversation without name calling, you can always agree is disagree but it has to be civil, and pro gun person can never loose his/her/it's cool and must be the bigger person if it goes south  :)

Maintaining calmness and even being polite in the face of their rudeness can actually be a pretty effective disarming/de-escalation thing and getting them to have real dialogue.

hvybarrels

Re: How to argue with people who are against guns
« Reply #29 on: April 26, 2019, 10:40:46 PM »
Your knowledge or perceptions may differ from mine, but the things you know don't constitute "your truth." It's illogical to believe otherwise, and it's ridiculous to redefine "truth" as such.

There's no such thing as an unbiased human, and raising such points in a disagreement will win you a single finger salute. Cold rationality doesn't exist even when it comes to artificial intelligence. The battleground of ideas has always been fought primarily on the emotional level.
I’m becoming clinically undepressed and thinking about beginning it all.

Flapp_Jackson

Re: How to argue with people who are against guns
« Reply #30 on: April 27, 2019, 10:54:04 AM »
There's no such thing as an unbiased human, and raising such points in a disagreement will win you a single finger salute. Cold rationality doesn't exist even when it comes to artificial intelligence. The battleground of ideas has always been fought primarily on the emotional level.

I'm talking about the semantics people use in order to give their biased opinions more authority by calling them "truths".

It's either true for all, or it's not a truth. Some facts are conditional -- but still true when taken in context.

An analogy would be optical illusions. Your mind becomes the arbiter of what you see, but the illusion means that isn't necessarily true.

Calling what you perceive as "your truth" is a manifestation of relativism:

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rel·a·tiv·ism
/ˈrelədəˌvizəm/
noun

the doctrine that knowledge, truth, and morality exist in relation to culture, society, or historical context, and are not absolute.

We used to call this "perspective" or "viewpoint". Now, some redefined it as "truth", as if reality changes based on the bias of the interpreter.

If I say Hitler was a mass murderer, and you say "No, he never directly murdered a single person," neither is "the truth". The truth is, he was a leader who ordered, and caused, the mass murder of millions.

Sometimes it's the difference between being more precise, which requires wordiness, versus assigning a short label.  In the age of sound bites and constantly redefined labels, it's no wonder we have a hard time communicating. We need to spend half our time explaining definitions on both sides.
The reasonable man adapts himself to the world;
the unreasonable one persists in trying to adapt the world to himself.
Therefore, all progress depends on the unreasonable man.
-- George Bernard Shaw