So the Mrs. works at a flower shop on the weekends. A Micronesian guy walks in and takes a money lei (worth $100) and runs off. The lei was tied to a pole, which tells me he had a sharp object to cut the string. It took 2 seconds.
She chases after him, but hurts her foot a few yards in and stops. Then the other worker who is a teenager continues the chase into a parking garage.
I told the Mrs. to not chase, because what if he chose to turn around and punch her. Or if she did tackle him, now he turns more violent because her frame of mind is "detain", and his frame of mind is use any means to get away. Or what if his friends are waiting outside.
She asked if she could OC him, told her it's like pissing in the wind if you try while running. IDK if she understood the concept so I had to explain. And even then, law states "reasonable force" allowed.
Once she told the cops that the younger worker was in the garaging looking for him, they rushed in to find the kid. Because they don't know the thieves frame of mind.
Thief was never caught. But there is camera footage. But I'm not holding my breath for a prosecution, unless he has a warrant already. This would be a slap on the wrist due to our over crowded courts and prisons. Prosecutors got bigger fish to fry than a shoplifter.
When she called me, she told me the store got "robbed". So my frame of mind is thinking violence and weapon. But then she described what happened and I relaxed (theft/non-violent). She told HPD that after speaking to me it was a theft. Cop interviewing her asked if I was a cop also. She said no, but does read a little about the laws.
I give my wife test and scenerios of what would she do if X happened or Y event. But it all changes when it actually happens. Her initial reflex was to chase the thief.