Glad to hear you got it open without buggering it up. WHen you said you tried prying it open with a screwdriver I sort of cringed. 
When I got my father’s HS the trigger would not reset after firing. I could reset it by pushing it forward with my finger. I just thought it was a weak or broken spring. It took me literally months to figure out the problem and fix it. Turns out there was just a bunch of old dried oil/gunk that was not allowing the trigger to move freely.
Tried getting the utility blade in between the locking bolt and the ejector rod, but wasn't really sure where the utility blade was supposed to go. . .

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Other threads on the topic and another 2a member mentioned using a pick or a thin flathead screwdriver. The utility blade seemed to flex quite a bit, so maybe something more stout was warranted. The lighting where I was working on the gun wasn't great (I wasn't at home) and my vision for smaller detail stuff like that isn't as good as it used to be. Ended up trying out a pair of my dad's reading glasses and that helped.

With the screwdriver, I was sort of prying, but wasn't horsing it. I was actually just trying to get the locking bolt to move. Sucker wasn't going anywhere. So I figured try to lube other points, so tried the cylinder release. I'm guessing it was either that or the lube took time to work into another area.
Will still have it checked out anyways. Noticed that the locking bolt moves freely on the Model 28, so something on the Model 57 is gummed up somewhere.
Did more reading up on the Model 57 and bit of history and evolution of the .41 Mag. Seems like an attempt at a "tweener" between .357 Mag and .44 Mag, sort of like the .40 S&W. I have some .41 Mag ammo, but not sure how much I'll shoot it. I'll have to see what availability on ammo is locally.