I've seen locals working at a Waikiki fast food place standing around talking story and giving me no attention. I was the only customer in the place. I had to ask, "Are you open for business?" before anyone asked what I wanted to order.
At the time, being new to Hawaii, I thought it was just bad attitude or crappy minimum wage employees. Now, it's my opinion the problem was much more .... problematic.
Sometimes the behavior is too subtle to pick up on, mainly because they don't want to get fired I'd imagine.
It's difficult to assign motives to behaviors, especially when the other person is a complete stranger. So, I give everyone the benefit of the doubt at least once. After I get to know them or spot a pattern, that benefit is no longer theirs.
We’re they millennials? (Kidding)
I can see what you mean, but I’ve seen crappy service all around, everywhere. But if you see a pattern, then maybe different.
Maybe I’m not sensitive, oblivious, or completely fawkin’ clueless (probably last), but I haven’t really noticed the service one.
Was in northern Louisiana on a work trip with my coworker, who is a tall Chinese guy. No Asians since maybe an hour since leaving Houston. Anyways, we go to a Mexican restaurant our first night and another coworker joins us. He’s a haole from CA and works in CA (but married to local girl). Service was actually pretty good to me. Food and beers came quickly. After we’re done, we’re driving back to the hotel and they both were like “were we getting discriminated against?” And they both agreed. I hadn’t noticed anything. When we got there the host said no seats, but we could sit at the bar. Apparently, they noticed that when we were done, an area of floor seating that was empty when we got there was full of locals. I didn’t really notice, but I assumed an area opened up once they got staff for that area. Maybe they didn’t want to serve “our kind”. Dunno.
On the drive back to TX, we stop at a Whataburger and eat there. My coworker and I get our food and we’re eating. He keeps commenting on how we’re the only Asians in there and the locals (mostly white folks) are looking at us funny. Didn’t notice. The service was excellent though. And my coworker went to U Texas in Austin, so while I thought he may be used to that, maybe it made him more sensitive. 🤷♂️