Kuleana,
I want to add some of my own personal experiences here. Back in my 20’s to 30’s I was working for a very old and established construction testing and inspection engineering firm. I was already in management and I was on my way to becoming upper management with a chance to actually have a say in running the day to day operations. That was my goal and dream. Then one day I was called into the office of an engineer who was also Vice President of the company. He closed the door to the office and proceeded to tell me that the CFO of the company was prejudiced against me. In the same way he was prejudiced against the engineer who I was speaking to. The engineer was already tenured in the company before the CFO was hired. So the CFO could not do much to the engineer. Except interfere with any future salary and benefits which according to the engineer, he was actually doing. He basically informed me that as long as the CFO was there, I would not go any where higher into management. I was devastated. I loved the company and I loved my job and I was looking forward to making something of myself in this industry. Needless to say I formulated a plan to take myself out of that situation and put myself into a more favorable one.
After we moved to the Big Island, my wife could not find a job. It may have been due to the poor job market at the time. But one day Jack’s Tours advertised a position that my wife was 100% qualified for. After a phone call she was invited to the office for an interview and and to take an accounting test. She showed up along with an oriental woman. They immediately gave both women the test. Except for one thing. They gave my wife a geometry test, not an accounting test. When she brought this to the attention of the hiring manager, he told her that if she didn’t like it she was welcome to leave. Prejudice at its finest at work in Hawaii. After 2 years of this we moved to Oahu due to my receiving an offer for a job on Oahu.
After we moved to Oahu, I experienced a lot of the prejudice that some locals feel is appropriate towards a fucking Haole. This includes their yelling and threatening me in public. Attempting to try and publicly shame me. At the time I had a great job at a large, old established and respected engineering company with offices all over the world. They are based out of Honolulu. I was their first Haole Inspector. I immediately made a name for myself as the HDOT and HDOE were giving large projects to my company in exchange for having me work on their projects. Then the company forced the retirement of the department head and brought in an oriental (I think Chinese) Wahine as the new department head. It was obvious from the moment she arrived that she didn’t like Haoles. I was relegated to being chained to my desk and given office assistant work to do. After 6 months of this my boss called me in an told me the HDOT and HDOE were not happy that I was no longer available to work on their projects. It was coincidental that they stopped receiving large contracts from the HDOT and HDOE. I think it was more she was not acceptable to them than it was me not being available to work on their projects. There were a lot of rumors about no one liking her. Anyway, he told me she was out to let me go due to my skin color. She was trying to set me up somehow and he could no longer protect me. I had no idea he had been trying to protect me all that time. So I devised a plan to get myself out of that situation and put myself into a more favorable one.
There are a lot more. I was poor all of my life and lived in poor neighborhoods in rundown apartments. My big break came in the late 90’s after I had devised a plan to completely change careers and go from construction to being a development/test engineer in the computer/tech industry. I did that for 12 years until I went back to construction. Why did I go back? In one word, prejudice. My boss at my last tech company was Hispanic and he did not hide his distaste for us old white guys. I was not the only one who experienced his wrath. There were 3 of us white guys. We were also older than the rest of the team. I don’t know if age had anything to do with his prejudice, but he was not shy about talking down to us white guys using language that was definitely illegal. Instead of fighting it I devised a plan to take myself out of that situation and put myself into a more favorable one.
Please note some of these experiences are not in chronological order. The point of all of this is that I have experienced prejudice of both religious and color of my skin most of my life. I feel I have become successful in spite of all of this as I have recently retired. But when I look back to what would my life would had been without all the prejudice I have had to endure in my life, I truly feel I would have been much better off and be much better much earlier in my life. I have had absolutely no privilege in my life. If there is such a thing as white privilege, I never experienced any. As a matter of fact, my experience has been just the opposite. It would have been much easier to just let society take me down and keep me down. And this is what is happening to those who feel that there is social disparity. They are taking the easy way out and it is their attitude that is keeping them down. For every poor hawaiian you know I am sure there are 1,000’s who have move to LV to better themselves and their families. It is those who make the conscience decision to stay in hawaii and allow their situation and their attitude to keep them down who are the problem here. And society has no responsibility to make them do what they need to in order to better themselves. JMHO