Just hold on tight, and keep your fingers outta da slide.Of course practice gun safety and don't shoot yourself in the leg. 
lol, sound advice!
The 1911 platform is more complicated to assemble / disassemble than a polymer pistol and tends to be less forgiving to shoot (jams if not gripped properly). It's also more expensive than a Glock / XD unless you look at something like the Rock Island Armory 1911. Secondly, a box of .45 caliber bullets are a lot more expensive than the 9mm -- as a "newbie", you might consider how much 2000 practice rounds would cost between the 9mm vs the 45 cal. Lastly, the .45 will have a lot more recoil so if you're just starting out, you'll really need to watch out that you don't develop a bad twitch habit from firing 45 calibers. Its not a sure thing though, yes you can overcome a recoil twitch with practice and good fundamentals / discipline.
As a second thought, you might want to consider getting a .22 handgun to go with the .45. The .22 cal is cheap and easy to shoot. If you find yourself shooting poorly with the 45 at the range, you can switch to the 22 and practice the fundamentals again before going back to the 45.
Oh yeah.... Welcome to the boards!
Thank you, that might be the reason I was told to stay away from the 1911 platform. You reminded me about the price, I totally forgot to add that to my post and that's actually one of my deciding factors.
As far as the ammo goes I never thought to think of the pricing. But the main reason behind the .40S&W size and no .22 is the defense factor.
I've always been interested in guns and I planned to get into it as a hobby but something I witnessed earlier this year (not at all involved ) made me switch my mentality from just a hobby to self defense for myself and my family. I never realized exactly how messed up people can be until unnecessary BS unfolded on my street.
I wanted a 92FS initially but read some stuff about the stopping power of the 9mm. Tried and true I still want a little more power but not as much as a .44 or .45 since my grip and technique is pretty much non existent. The only problem is I've never shot a .40S&W before, I've done .22LR, 9mm, .357 magnum, .44magnum, and .45
I'm not opposed to getting a 9mm though. I'm sure it'll be fine if I ever had to use it (I pray I'd never have to use it defensively) within my home in the event of a robber/killer/whatever this is just my logic. How is it so far? lol