More than once I've been approached and asked for money to buy fuel
so a family to buy fuel to get home.
My response is "pull up to the pump and I will fill you up"
Never been taken up.
Another is "family is hungry can we have money to buy food?"
I say "lets go to the store and pick what you want, I'm buying"
never been taken up on that either.
I have no problem giving charity, But I decide the expenditure of my money for charity.
That one vehicle could have cost me 100$ in fuel and the family 100$ in food and
I would have paid it.
But if they want charity I WILL have a say in how the money is spent.
