I just noticed this thread. Perhaps a bit late to reply but what the hell. I like to work a problem backwards starting with the end result.
If you are an accomplished handgunner, I don't believe it makes much difference what you end up with.
You will shoot well with whatever gun or ammo you can hang on to. That is the goal.
If you have tons of money, it doesn't matter either.
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If you are NOT a skillful pistol shooter, then you need to practice more. After all, what good is the gun if you are not proficient in its use?
In order to practice more, you have to either make or buy ammo. If you have tons of money, the point is moot.
If you don't have tons of money you need to find economical practice ammo. So what is the lowest cost 45 ammo? Lead bullet reloads.
Some of the pistols you are interested in have polygonal rifled barrels. There is controversy over the use of cheap lead bullet reloads in such barrels.
I'm not going to debate that issue because there is just not enough meaningful information about that topic.
If you are able to make or buy cheap lead bullet reloads, then you can afford to practice much more for the same amount of money.
More practice is better and more fun too. More practice helps to achieve proficiency. When you are proficient, you have arrived at your goal.
I believe the HK and Glocks have polygonal barrels. Not too sure about the others. Of course 1911 pattern guns have conventional rifling. There are aftermaket barrels for glocks that have conventional rifling, but I don't recall anybody here that has experience with that. Perhaps there is another list member that knows about this.
Personally, I would love to own an HK or Glock but the stigma of lead bullets in such barrels make me queasy.
Another factor is sights. Look for a gun that has easily adjustable sights. I know in defensive applications it doesn't matter much, but honestly it's not much fun going to the pistol range and shooting at 25 yards and watching your shots going way off to one side. (and you can't fix it!)
I'm tempted to make personal recommendations, but I've said enough already. I'll name specific guns if you really want my opinion.