Behavior on 2aHawaii.com (Read 22755 times)

Drakiir84

Re: Behavior on 2aHawaii.com
« Reply #40 on: April 24, 2018, 09:12:19 AM »
Have you been actively participating in HDF or HRA events?  Other than providing criticism.

I haven't been as active as I would like, but in the events that I do attend, both groups seem to have decent participation.  Could it be better?  Sure.  People have lives to live and understand that these events can take up a lot of time.  Yeah, some folks stop coming around, for a variety of reasons and feelings of alienation could be one of them.  However, I often see many new folks coming in as well that contribute greatly.

Speaking of you never coming, u gonna be at the fun shoot on Sunday? ;-)
"The rifle is a weapon. Let there be no mistake about that. It is a tool of power, and thus dependent completely upon the moral stature of its user. It is equally useful in securing meat for the table, destroying group enemies on the battlefield, and resisting tyranny. In fact, it is the only means of resisting tyranny, since a citizenry armed with rifles simply cannot be tyrannized."
-Jeff Cooper

drck1000

Re: Behavior on 2aHawaii.com
« Reply #41 on: April 24, 2018, 09:37:25 AM »
Speaking of you never coming, u gonna be at the fun shoot on Sunday? ;-)
I'm trying to get to the rifle range sometime this weekend.  Not sure which day yet as I have to work around family stuff.  I actually forgot about the fun shoot.  If it works out, I'll try to head to the range on Sunday and swing by the fun shoot.  Are you going?  I just got the ZEV RMR slide back this past week too.  Would have been fun to test it out in a fun shoot environment, as opposed to the 25 yard range. 

I was also invited to a shoot on Sat, but doubtful that I will make it to that.  So many events that I want to go to, but so little time.  Haha

Drakiir84

Re: Behavior on 2aHawaii.com
« Reply #42 on: April 24, 2018, 09:56:08 AM »
I'm trying to get to the rifle range sometime this weekend.  Not sure which day yet as I have to work around family stuff.  I actually forgot about the fun shoot.  If it works out, I'll try to head to the range on Sunday and swing by the fun shoot.  Are you going?  I just got the ZEV RMR slide back this past week too.  Would have been fun to test it out in a fun shoot environment, as opposed to the 25 yard range. 

I was also invited to a shoot on Sat, but doubtful that I will make it to that.  So many events that I want to go to, but so little time.  Haha

Yeah I should be there, message me if you're gonna go.
"The rifle is a weapon. Let there be no mistake about that. It is a tool of power, and thus dependent completely upon the moral stature of its user. It is equally useful in securing meat for the table, destroying group enemies on the battlefield, and resisting tyranny. In fact, it is the only means of resisting tyranny, since a citizenry armed with rifles simply cannot be tyrannized."
-Jeff Cooper

Kuleana

Re: Behavior on 2aHawaii.com
« Reply #43 on: April 24, 2018, 10:06:48 AM »
Have you been actively participating in HDF or HRA events?  Other than providing criticism.

I use to participate in many of the range days offered by both organizations, but like many others that I remember going with to those events, do not go anymore due to life's other obligations, but also due to the alienation and condescending behavior exhibited by certain members there.

Do not get me wrong, the leadership of both organizations have done a fantastic job at what they do.  However, there are a few members in both organizations that knowingly or unknowingly rub people the wrong way, resulting in people not wanting to participate or associate with those events anymore.


Heavies

Re: Behavior on 2aHawaii.com
« Reply #44 on: April 24, 2018, 10:39:35 AM »

Well jeezuz, anything you do in life that has interaction with people is going to have some of differing personality that will "rub you the wrong way" 

Bruh. Is that may so thin skinned?

Kuleana

Re: Behavior on 2aHawaii.com
« Reply #45 on: April 24, 2018, 11:29:33 AM »
Well jeezuz, anything you do in life that has interaction with people is going to have some of differing personality that will "rub you the wrong way" 

Bruh. Is that may so thin skinned?

I don't think I am thin skinned, given the many personal attacks I have received from my posts in this forum.  In fact, I would argue that those who have engaged in personal attacks on this forum are more thin skinned, as they can't handle the possibility of a different perspective that challenges their own dogmas.

One observation that I was referring to in my statement above is the apparent cronyism that occurs from a few individuals at the various range days, where it is apparent that certain members are given special treatment, while others are kept on the edge the entire time they are there, regardless of the level of skill of that individual.

Sure, if you don't like how you are treated, then don't participate.  Well, I guess that is why there is a lack of participation among 2a organizations here when it comes to furthering initiatives to improve gun rights in Hawaii.

drck1000

Re: Behavior on 2aHawaii.com
« Reply #46 on: April 24, 2018, 01:27:20 PM »
I use to participate in many of the range days offered by both organizations, but like many others that I remember going with to those events, do not go anymore due to life's other obligations, but also due to the alienation and condescending behavior exhibited by certain members there.

Do not get me wrong, the leadership of both organizations have done a fantastic job at what they do.  However, there are a few members in both organizations that knowingly or unknowingly rub people the wrong way, resulting in people not wanting to participate or associate with those events anymore.

I don't know that much about HDF, but I can definitely see folks in HRA that rub folks the wrong way.  I know that there are many cliques and not everyone gets along with everyone else.  Such is life.  I am aware of folks not coming out because of other folks.  Peoples toes are stepped on, people encountering folks on a bad day, people are just plain assholes, etc.  Again, such is life.  My opinion is that there are many more TomG's, Drakiirs, dogman, etc than the assholes.  I mean I am pretty easy going, but yeah, there are folks that I don't care for.  But again, shooting is something I enjoy and I don't let that crap ruin it for me.  If there's someone condescending or an asshole, f'em.  Plenty of other good folks in both organizations. 

I will say that times change and people do move on.  I know of at least of a few more enigmatic folks have left that I heard used to be cause for rifts.  I never really noticed myself, but such things come up over some cigars and whiskey.  It's that latter connections that make participation worth it.  Everyone has their limits and time is valuable.  I wouldn't spend my time on things that left me feeling totally alienated and such, but then again, I'm not that thin skinned. 

I have come across some condescending folks at many shooting events, classes, etc.  But for the most part, those are the exception.  I've had folks rub me the wrong way at HDF shoots many years ago, like the know-it-all that makes snide remarks on the side, all the while not even shooting himself.  The competition shooter who never helps set up or clean up, but is always complaining about how long the event takes.  So I do notice things that I don't like, but ignore them and move on.  Enjoy life man. 

drck1000

Re: Behavior on 2aHawaii.com
« Reply #47 on: April 24, 2018, 01:33:19 PM »
I don't think I am thin skinned, given the many personal attacks I have received from my posts in this forum.  In fact, I would argue that those who have engaged in personal attacks on this forum are more thin skinned, as they can't handle the possibility of a different perspective that challenges their own dogmas.

One observation that I was referring to in my statement above is the apparent cronyism that occurs from a few individuals at the various range days, where it is apparent that certain members are given special treatment, while others are kept on the edge the entire time they are there, regardless of the level of skill of that individual.

Sure, if you don't like how you are treated, then don't participate.  Well, I guess that is why there is a lack of participation among 2a organizations here when it comes to furthering initiatives to improve gun rights in Hawaii.
Special treatment?  I don't see it that way.  In fact, at most fun shoots, we tend to go out of our way to make sure newbies are taken care of.  Both from a safety perspective as well as encouraging them to enjoy, in whatever capacity they want.  Many are often tentative, especially given a new shooter and they come to the shoot alone.  Understandable, but one also has to be an adult about things and not expect anything without putting something in themselves.  On the rare occasions that I've been in charge of portions of range days, yeah, I'll surely joke around with those that I am closer to, but it's not like I'm snob or looking down on anyone.  Maybe I am and don't know it.  I'll have to let folks like Drakiir, dogman, TomG and others be the judge of that.  I think I'm pretty easy going and want everyone who wants to participate, participate. 

The shooting community is a community.  If someone is always finding themselves on the outside looking in, maybe they should take a hard look at themselves before blaming everything on the organizations. 

ren

Re: Behavior on 2aHawaii.com
« Reply #48 on: April 24, 2018, 01:56:46 PM »
We need sensitivity training prior to creating a 2ahawaii.com account.
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mrgaf

Re: Behavior on 2aHawaii.com
« Reply #49 on: April 24, 2018, 03:50:15 PM »
I don't think I am thin skinned, given the many personal attacks I have received from my posts in this forum.  In fact, I would argue that those who have engaged in personal attacks on this forum are more thin skinned, as they can't handle the possibility of a different perspective that challenges their own dogmas.

One observation that I was referring to in my statement above is the apparent cronyism that occurs from a few individuals at the various range days, where it is apparent that certain members are given special treatment, while others are kept on the edge the entire time they are there, regardless of the level of skill of that individual.

Sure, if you don't like how you are treated, then don't participate.  Well, I guess that is why there is a lack of participation among 2a organizations here when it comes to furthering initiatives to improve gun rights in Hawaii.

Know exactly how you feel. Guess life’s a bitch though...... :wacko:
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eyeeatingfish

Re: Behavior on 2aHawaii.com
« Reply #50 on: April 24, 2018, 04:12:53 PM »
Yeah, you don't want "censorship", you just want people to not say what they want to say and you want to call that "self control", rather than "my control". How very convenient for you. You want to dictate what people are "allowed" to write, but you want them to acquiesce in conforming to your "standard" of what is "acceptable" or not. But you don't advocate censorship. You just want everyone to agree with you. Where have we seen that before? Another one of your, pardon me, logically incoherent and false claims.

Dictate? I don't know how you aren't getting this. Self control is the opposite of someone else controlling you. If you don't want to or are unable to control your own behavior then just say so. Don't try to pretend that a call for self control is equivalent to censorship and act as if I am making some irrational demand.  :crazy:


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Yeah, and your "complaining" and wanting people to exhibit "self-control" is not an attempt to "shut down" dialogue, right? Just "certain kinds" of dialogue that you find "unacceptable" for whatever variety of "reasons" you offer to justify ending such dialogue. You want to "foster dialogue" as long as it conforms to your standard of "appropriate" dialog. You can't make this stuff up.

I am not complaining I am making suggestions. But if you want to rationalize a calling for civil discourse as complaining so you can excuse counter productive behavior then I cannot stop you. I on the other hand will choose to put the cause ahead of my own desires to insult people.

rklapp

Re: Behavior on 2aHawaii.com
« Reply #51 on: April 24, 2018, 05:58:25 PM »
There’s condescending know-it-all’s in every group. That’s why I don’t care when people try to throw their shit at me (but it does get tiresome). For example, We have cockatiels and participate in the local parrot group but some of them are huge assholes about Godamn birds. Like I said, it gets tiresome after awhile.
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mauiblue

Re: Behavior on 2aHawaii.com
« Reply #52 on: April 24, 2018, 07:11:54 PM »
I've been reading and posting on Internet forums for a while now. There are some personalities that I don't give a rat's ass about and pretty much ignore. The majority of characters I've come across are considerate and friendly. They are willing to give positive advice and perspective. That's the reason why I join specific topic forums.

This is the fricking Internet and pretty much the wild west. I don't take it personally when the trolls come out to play. Eventually punk ass forum members will be tossed out by admin/mods or members will just ignore them. In the meantime, I just tolerate the bastards and game them whenever possible. Ha!

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rklapp

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dogman

Re: Behavior on 2aHawaii.com
« Reply #54 on: April 24, 2018, 10:12:44 PM »
On the rare occasions that I've been in charge of portions of range days, yeah, I'll surely joke around with those that I am closer to, but it's not like I'm snob or looking down on anyone.  Maybe I am and don't know it.  I'll have to let folks like Drakiir, dogman, TomG and others be the judge of that.
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dogman

Re: Behavior on 2aHawaii.com
« Reply #55 on: April 24, 2018, 10:26:38 PM »
I forget where it was or when it was but when I met a guy who said he was GreenStomper, I said "yeah your one of the good guys on 2a", he replied something like "growing up, if you don't have anything good to say . . . . . . ." 

Flapp_Jackson

Re: Behavior on 2aHawaii.com
« Reply #56 on: April 24, 2018, 11:16:34 PM »
The most basic question is not what is best,

but who shall decide what is best.

-Thomas Sowell
The reasonable man adapts himself to the world;
the unreasonable one persists in trying to adapt the world to himself.
Therefore, all progress depends on the unreasonable man.
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changemyoil66

Re: Behavior on 2aHawaii.com
« Reply #57 on: April 25, 2018, 08:49:47 AM »
I want to apologize if I have offended anyone on this forum.  My intentions are not to insult people.  I don't think I did, but every one perceives things differently. And what was nothing in my eyes, might have been insulting to another.

Jl808

Re: Behavior on 2aHawaii.com
« Reply #58 on: April 25, 2018, 10:11:15 AM »
If I might make a suggestion....

If you want 2aHawaii to be a friendlier forum for others, try to re-read your posts OUT LOUD.  Attempt to HEAR IT from the other person's point of view on how it will be received.

In taking any public speaking lesson like toastmasters, one would know that any failure in communication is always the responsibility and the fault of the speaker.  Granted, one can't please everyone but a little bit of self awareness will help minimize the appearance of being a jerk online.
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ren

Re: Behavior on 2aHawaii.com
« Reply #59 on: April 25, 2018, 04:47:56 PM »
My apologies to all that I have offended.  :( :-X
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