Interesting. . .
Will see how my M&P 45 does this weekend. Sounds like could be the same thing.
Good that OF could help you out, with the gun and otherwise! 
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I couldn't really help his extractor because it is pinned with really teeny weeny roll pin.
Also, it's not my gun so i dare not modify it. But my obvservation is that the pressure required to insert
A cartridge rim under the claw is too high. It also has a rough gritty feel when the rim is trying to slide in.
If I owned that gun, I would definitely radius the sharp edges around the claw.
I would even try cutting a coil off the extractor spring, as long as i have a spare spring available.
The mental exercise thing is something that I developed on my own.
Pistol shooting is maybe 90% mental. So that is my focus.