LOL my parents were never scared to "spank me" as a kid, they went full Asian, hehe considering how they grew up, no matter what I got it easy, shit I got hit with everything especially clothes hangers! haha, I got hit in front of the teacher one time cause I failed a test, this was in elementary and going up, not once has my parents blamed the teacher cause I wasn't paying attention either. I learn that that shit is on you, I didn't grow up like most other kids that got to have everything they asked for, didn't have a playstation, gameboy color, etc.. I just played outside and use my imagination. which i'm glad cause i'm not glued to the screen playing games all day instead of being healthy outdoors, growing up I hated some of these things and were jealous of other kids but now i'm glad I didn't get spoiled with goods, when I wanted something, I had to work hard for it from school, needed an A+ to be able to get yu-gi-oh cards

I learned what hard work is from that. now days i see kids as young as 5 years old glued onto an ipad, or iphone, like WTF do kids that young need to have their own iphones anyways,

the average age for kids to own their own cellphone is 11 yrs old now, 70% of kids own their own cellphone, like my little cousins too, they cry when they don't get it and the parents give up and just give it to them cause they don't wanna deal with it, that's building bad habits right there, that's why kids will start thinking they're entitled to whatever they want. when I was working as a server I can't tell you how many times I seen a whole family with everyone on their phones and no family time spent, the children, the mom and father! like every ones facing each other with the phone in their face, when I went to eat with my family, we can't have any electronics out and have to behave. and parents blame the teachers?! why if you're child's sleeping in class or fail a test or is not studying etc.. its probably cause you let him stay up all night playing CoD, or not punishing the child whenever he talks back or what not, shit my dad actually gave the teachers permission to hit me if i was misbehaving in class lmao

luckily I think it was to scare me into behaving, it worked too.
also the feel good rule in schools where every kid gets a gold star, regardless of competition or work, cause parents don't want kids feelings "hurt" which is understandable to a certain extent, competitions suppose to be healthy and give you a push to strive to be better, its a good motivating factor, and rewards in the end pay off, but this is one of the main problems when a kid that studies very hard and a kid that puts no effort is also "rewarded as if he studied" this is a socialistic idea....
my disclaimer: this is also a generalization and not meant to target anyone, this is just a RANT about how I feel my generation nowadays, of course not every ones like this, most people my age are now working hard and are in college now