forums are made for discussions
sometimes discussions get heated bc people are emotionally involved with a certain issue
for example, the Deedy case. some for 1 side, some for the other side.
I always remember we are discussing an issue, not hating the other person typing on their computer.
we can have different views, different opinions.
we can discuss these differences.
maybe if you cannot discuss issues like a civilized person, its you that have a communication problem.
I can't change what others will say. i have no power over that.
what i do have the power to control is my reaction.
thats why to me, there are no bullies around here.
no more than any other forum, gun, car, Mustang, doesnt matter
its how society is
we cant change society, but we can control our self.