The fact of the matter is that if you want to do something, if you REALLY want to do something, you are going to do it by overcoming any barriers to accomplish your goals.
Amen. A change just given to somoene isn't going to mean as much as change that the person accomplished. Change that is given in this subject also wouldn't be immediate either so people would still think nothing has changed.
Here are some applicable quotes from Booker T. Washington.
“The wisest among my race understand that agitations of social equality is the extremist folly, and that progress in the enjoyment of all privileges that will come to us must be the result of severe and constant struggle rather than of artificial forcing.”
― Booker T. Washington, Up from Slavery
“There is another class of coloured people who make a business of keeping the troubles, the wrongs, and the hardships of the Negro race before the public. Having learned that they are able to make a living out of their troubles, they have grown into the settled habit of advertising their wrongs — partly because they want sympathy and partly because it pays. Some of these people do not want the Negro to lose his grievances, because they do not want to lose their jobs.”
― Booker T. Washington
“No race can prosper till it learns that there is as much dignity in tilling a field as in writing a poem.”
― Booker T. Washington
“Among a large class, there seemed to be a dependence upon the government for every conceivable thing. The members of this class had little ambition to create a position for themselves, but wanted the federal officials to create one for them. How many times I wished then and have often wished since, that by some power of magic, I might remove the great bulk of these people into the country districts and plant them upon the soil – upon the solid and never deceptive foundation of Mother Nature, where all nations and races that have ever succeeded have gotten their start – a start that at first may be slow and toilsome, but one that nevertheless is real.”
― Booker T. Washington, Up from Slavery
“You measure the size of the accomplishment by the obstacles you have to overcome to reach your goals.”
― Booker T. Washington