Please forgive me ... (Read 2060 times)

Flapp_Jackson

Please forgive me ...
« on: July 17, 2016, 01:40:32 AM »
Aloha, forum members:

I'd like everyone to know how much I regret that I was unable to avoid the troll, EyeEatingFish.  I should have known from his name alone he had issues!

As much as I tried to limit replies to him, he's like a little kid nagging and nagging and nagging until you can't ignore him any longer.  I noticed several others having long running off-topic arguments with him as well, so I don't think I was the only one being drawn into his never ending downward spiral of loosely related tangents.  Maybe I was drawn into it deeper because he singled me out more, or maybe I didn't understand how incapable he is of accepting any viewpoint he didn't already agree with.

Regardless, I know not to mud wrestle with pigs, but sometimes ego says "maybe you can teach him a lesson this time!"  Little did I know how adept he is at deflection, obfuscation, misdirection, and regularly backtracking his comments as "not what I meant"!

I understand this is not my own little playground, and the forum must be shared.  As such, you try to make it something others will be proud of.  I have to admit, I'm not proud of the arguing back and forth, nor of wasting my time trying to reason with the unreasonable.  I was optimistic, but I see now the collateral damage outweighed any hope of reaching him..

As Mark Twain is quoted as saying:  "Never argue with stupid people, they will drag you down to their level and then beat you with experience."  I can humbly say I have now been beaten by someone with much more experience in this field than have I.

On a final note, my LIKES-to-POSTS ratio is still above 21%, while his is not even 4.5%.  That's amazing given that I've only just joined recently and only 8 likes behind his total of 96!  That alone tells me my contributions are well received by the other members here.  Mahalo for the supportive feedback!

I promise to do better.   I admit he's very good at what he does and sometimes not very obvious about it.  In spite of that, I'll do my part to the best of my ability.

Mahalo!   :wave:

« Last Edit: July 17, 2016, 01:47:31 AM by Flapp_Jackson »
The reasonable man adapts himself to the world;
the unreasonable one persists in trying to adapt the world to himself.
Therefore, all progress depends on the unreasonable man.
-- George Bernard Shaw

Surf

Re: Please forgive me ...
« Reply #1 on: July 17, 2016, 06:46:07 AM »
I personally think the banter between the two of you is annoying but I avoid reading it as much as I can.  I will say that a post like this screams "look at me guys" and it is also an obvious jab at EEF.  Likes to post ratio?  I didn't know we tracked such things?  Is this some type of popularity contest?  I would think that if someones intentions were genuine about letting things go, then you would simply just let things go and not find a need to make a stand alone post about it.  Definite pot stirring post and quite frankly if this were my forum to moderate, this post and the two of you would have been moderated some time ago. 

dogman

Re: Please forgive me ...
« Reply #2 on: July 17, 2016, 07:47:23 AM »
I personally think the banter between the two of you is annoying but I avoid reading it as much as I can.  I will say that a post like this screams "look at me guys" and it is also an obvious jab at EEF.  Likes to post ratio?  I didn't know we tracked such things?  Is this some type of popularity contest?  I would think that if someones intentions were genuine about letting things go, then you would simply just let things go and not find a need to make a stand alone post about it.  Definite pot stirring post and quite frankly if this were my forum to moderate, this post and the two of you would have been moderated some time ago.
Well said +1

Heavies

Re: Please forgive me ...
« Reply #3 on: July 17, 2016, 08:27:40 AM »
Yes. Well said Surf, thank you.