My experience is pretty much par for the course here. My wife is a mixed bag-
She grew up in the country and around guns,but could care less about them.
She understands the practicality of having a gun for protection, but at the same time wonders why I want another gun.
She had a carry permit in VA, but very rarely carried.
She shoots with me occasionallly( I usual force her to go), but when she goes she enjoys it and is a great shot.
I attempted to really engage her in shooting by buying her a 9mm and had it powder coated with pink flames. She loves her girly pink pistol, but Im still waiting for the day for her to say" hey, let's go shooting!"
The next household drama is when to introduce my daughter to shooting, but thats a whole other post on its own.