I've been there myself and decided to cancel most social media accounts because it's gotten so hostile and senseless since the election. When you point out there are more than two sides to an issue then you get attacked by everyone who's identity and credibility rest on there only being two sides. We like to think of our enemies as our opposites and project all the ugly parts we don't like about ourselves on them. Say something to disrupt that illusion and you automatically get stuffed into the "enemies" bin.
I hear ya. I hate politics in general and stay FAR away from that for the most part. Sure I'll chime in here and there where I think people are WAY off base, but usually only a little quip to point out their hypocrisy, irrational thought (where's Omni?), etc.
Yeah, we do tend to think of our enemies as opposites. However, I sometimes to stop to think whether my views are sort of in "blinder mode". Something I wish is that others try to see other points of view from time to time. Not that they agree with it, but to take the time to try to understand the viewpoint. You can sometimes learn a lot, or confirm that you are 180 degrees from their thinking. But at least you understand, or tried to, understand where they are coming from.
Like the discussion I had about whether or not free college was a good idea. One of my best friend's brother was ALL for it. Why? Because his kids would benefit from it and he himself didn't go to college because he didn't have grades. So he also viewed it as an opportunity that he could have benefitted from. But I did get him to concede that he was only for that as long as the person in school was actually working toward graduating as opposed to being a career student.