Never been a “player”. At least not that I know of. This woman and I had mutual friends so she knew my real name. She was a single mother, drugs and alcohol were involved and she was adamant about not wanting to get involved with anyone. Which is why I thought she just wanted a one night thing. Maybe something changed after how wild it got that night, I don’t know? Maybe she was just fucking crazy? Who knows what goes on inside women’s minds?
BTW, this was before cell phones. 
So, you willingly gave out a number she could not immediately verify? There should be classes on "How to Avoid a Fatal Attraction."
I spent a weekend with a gal in NC. She was in the middle of a divorce (married to a buddy of mine from high school). We rendezvoused a few months later in Vegas for what was expected to be nearly a week. Just before the trip, she started referring to me as "her soulmate."
I left her alone at the hotel the first 2 days while I attended Front Sight, and then I barely had any time to spend with her in the evening. I was getting up at 4am to get ready and drive an hour, then returning to the hotel about 7pm very tired. Standing almost all day in the sun takes its toll.
On the second day, she made up a story about her dad being sick and left. Then she ghosted me.
WHEW!!! That was close! (as in Glenn Close) So much for "soul mates!"
The day before she arrived, I won $1,800 in the casino. The day after she left, I won another $2,800. My room and meals at the hotel were comped (had to buy lunch at FS). I used frequent flyer miles for my ticket. FS cost me $250 to attend plus $200 for a case of 9mm ammo.
All in all, a very productive and fun vacation. These long distance romances never last -- thankfully!!
