ok, so this shows up in the router logs
[LAN access from remote] from 124.158.45.19:64915 to 192.168.1.3:54303, Friday, Mar 15,2013 10:25:31
124.185.45.19 is the phillippines
and i found a whole bunch more
[LAN access from remote] from 218.212.162.102:58271 to 192.168.1.3:38888, Friday, Mar 15,2013 09:35:47
[LAN access from remote] from 82.155.242.55:15940 to 192.168.1.3:38888, Friday, Mar 15,2013 09:35:47
[LAN access from remote] from 202.160.16.141:6315 to 192.168.1.3:38888, Friday, Mar 15,2013 09:35:46
[LAN access from remote] from 92.113.78.48:50425 to 192.168.1.3:38888, Friday, Mar 15,2013 09:35:46
[LAN access from remote] from 187.65.188.203:15421 to 192.168.1.3:38888, Friday, Mar 15,2013 09:35:46
[LAN access from remote] from 203.113.146.236:45682 to 192.168.1.3:38888, Friday, Mar 15,2013 09:35:45
[LAN access from remote] from 221.127.196.214:49521 to 192.168.1.3:38888, Friday, Mar 15,2013 09:35:45
[LAN access from remote] from 75.95.234.210:56921 to 192.168.1.3:38888, Friday, Mar 15,2013 09:35:45
[LAN access from remote] from 99.74.251.81:62282 to 192.168.1.3:38888, Friday, Mar 15,2013 09:35:45
[LAN access from remote] from 1.170.47.173:14757 to 192.168.1.3:38888, Friday, Mar 15,2013 09:35:45
[LAN access from remote] from 111.242.195.248:22957 to 192.168.1.3:38888, Friday, Mar 15,2013 09:35:44
[LAN access from remote] from 37.106.46.88:18448 to 192.168.1.3:38888, Friday, Mar 15,2013 09:35:44
[LAN access from remote] from 2.27.193.210:27341 to 192.168.1.3:38888, Friday, Mar 15,2013 09:35:43
[LAN access from remote] from 79.50.239.141:34991 to 192.168.1.3:38888, Friday, Mar 15,2013 09:35:43
[LAN access from remote] from 123.243.167.133:48250 to 192.168.1.3:38888, Friday, Mar 15,2013 09:35:42
is this bad?
nothing unusual
modem lights not even blinking send/receive (which scares me if i'm not doing anything and it's blinking like crazy)
only thing that is different is that i cannot access ONE website i always go to
none of the computers attached to the modem/router can get on the site (2 windows 7, one mac)
(even my iphone when on wifi- if i turn off wifi and go 3g/4g, it works)
i didn't make any changes to my modem settings or parental controls
i guess it is possible that road runner/time warner is blocking that site, but it works on rr at home