I think Young Guns is the most heavily advertised (a relative term) gun store in Hawaii for some reason, and that leads me to believe that they have the highest number of new people. Maybe it's because every time I've been there, there's always someone that is explaining how to acquire guns in Hawaii. Last time I was there, it was some military folks. The time before that was a Japanese couple in it for self-defense. Took the time to show her that compact models are more concealable, but harder to rack the slide for her. The lady there is super nice to everyone so far as I've seen. They're just too damn expensive (back to the monopolistic price-gouge thing).
My point is, well, perhaps they're an industry exception, but my point is, I've personally seen more new people there than any of the other stores I've been to. Yet no one here has an issue with them enough to vote them above the others (I have seen one or two of the staff appear impatient, but nothing overtly disrespectful).
I think that speaks for itself.
Compare that to the other stores, where someone walks in and they know each other by name, it makes it feel like it's a private cool-guy club. Which it inherently is in our political climate, but that's not really conducive to spreading the word (nor sales).
I personally think only 2 or so gun stores here care enough about this concept.
You're right, customer service sucks. I'm in the tourism industry almost my whole life. Repeating the same shit day in and day out to thousands of people. It is ANNOYING. But there's one thing that both the potential gun-store shopper and tourist have in common. We can choose to go somewhere else next time if we feel like we've been treated like shit.
As the person paying money, it's my social responsibility to not be an asshole, and the receiver's professional responsibility to not be an asshole. If one or the other chooses (very important word here) to be an asshole, then the balance is broken and someone or both will have a bad experience.