The anonymity of the internet lends itself easily to people being angry, rude, trolling, etc. It is always good to remember that on this forum most people are local and we may come across each other. I have met maybe a dozen people from this forum in person whether for activism or selling things or just at the gun shows. Given the lack of non verbal queues it can be hard to tell whether someone is making a light hearted joke, a seething response, or playing the roll of the troll the internet can be very poisoning.
Someone will probably find something to whine about in this statement given their obvious attempts to troll me in this thread but in the end I don't harbor hate for anyone here. Cannot control others of course but if you remember that you may meet a person in the future it seems to help to avoid bad blood.
I laud your temperament. You are far ahead of me there.
Since this is called a “Forum” I kind of expect it to operate that way.
People should be able to express their ideas and points of view, and if they differ, and one or both parties think it really matters, then duke it out rhetorically, without trolling, condescension, or presuming to school the other party.
One can blow another’s position out of the water without personal insult to them. It’s the position or idea you’re attacking. The need for this skill comes up in the corporate space ALL THE TIME - if you can’t do it there, you’re dead meat.
If someone is just trolling here to be an asshole, that’s screamingly obvious. No explanation is needed if you flame them.
Also, everyone here is just a person with a point of view - no need be so grim in grinding out the issues people raise.
None of what’s said here is going to change the outcome of the geopolitical or societal issues we face and talk about.
Maybe being able to express yourself, and learn from what others say (even if you don’t particularly like it), is plenty for this forum to be worth people’s time to participate in.