Yeah, I can def see that. I was more referring to I’ve never experienced or seen where say Chinese cannot go into a place owned by Flilpinos. I have def seen deferent cultures/races talking $hit about each other, but mostly give and take. Yeah, I have seen some of that get downright nasty, but not like what I’ve experienced or seen elsewhere in the world, where certain races are treated like dirt.
I've seen locals working at a Waikiki fast food place standing around talking story and giving me no attention. I was the only customer in the place. I had to ask, "Are you open for business?" before anyone asked what I wanted to order.
At the time, being new to Hawaii, I thought it was just bad attitude or crappy minimum wage employees. Now, it's my opinion the problem was much more .... problematic.
Sometimes the behavior is too subtle to pick up on, mainly because they don't want to get fired I'd imagine.
It's difficult to assign motives to behaviors, especially when the other person is a complete stranger. So, I give everyone the benefit of the doubt at least once. After I get to know them or spot a pattern, that benefit is no longer theirs.