I watched a press conference, an entire one, not snippets spoon fed by the media, and that parade question was brought up many times. It was said time and time again the president wanted suggestions on how to honor the military, and may have brought up the idea of a parade, the idea of a parade was looked into, and not a commandment by the president to make it so.
The media has blown this way out of proportion and made it some kind of issue. Further enforcing the "Fake News" label, IMHO...